The art of letting it go..and how to succeed by failing...

Letting go of things that you want to hold on is a very special art and very very hurting process....but it will eventually help you grow as a person...and will help you on how to handle situations that you would normally freak out...

There is a simple analogy behind this funda....its like...more tighter you hold on to something more is the pressure you will put on it...and ultimately its you that is going on to suffer by putting that extra pressure to hold on....but trust me friends letting go of things that you want to hold on will make "YOUR" life easier....because the things that belong to you, there is no need not on hold to them.... they will stay with you with out any pressure......take any scenario in life.....relationships, job, financial matters or anything....the more you want things badly the more the disappointment you get...but you should never stop trying what you want....keep trying but be prepared to get disappointed...prepare to fail...prepare to loose things...learn to be a looser...you gotta fail in life to succeed...some of you might agree with me on this and some might not...but from my experiences of watching people around me closely I believe in the above words... Until you have failed you will never ever realize the importance of success....you wont realize what it is to miss something in your life that you wanted so badly...things like money, House, Cars etc.,...might be materialistic but those things have lot of memories, struggles, failures that we all go through...For most of you folks things might be going just fine in all corners...but life being a bitch will throw in a surprise here and there..to screw you...and you gotta be strong to come out of it...other wise you will feel and live like a looser rest of your life...


people who have never lost anything will never ever realize the importance of that thing....and when they find it again...they will handle it very carefully...take care of it in mature way that before...and for those folks who ask what if I don't get a second chance? my answer is that YOU WILL..god or who ever is up there will always give us a second chance to make things right....it is up 2 u to identify that opportunity and grab it with both hands

Never look back at what happened when you gotta move forward...never think what you could have done to avoid being in the present situation......I think only those people who live in the moment live their life to the fullest not in past not in future...but the present. We all live in present not in past not in future..so it kinda makes sense to have a good time when you are there.

I hope this gibberish made some sense to at least few of you out there....
cheers.