Emotional Atyachar....Is that what you get from every relationship??

Everyone out there must have been in relationship at some point of time...few good ones and few bad ones...this is my attempt to summarize how the relationships start and end....This post is inspired by Vicious Circle of life by the guys at 3pinhole.blogspot.com . I tried to use some of the famous dialogues girls and guys say in each phase.....This post is inspired by many relationships I have witnessed and heard about...I would like to know how many of you agree with me... :-)

Phase 1:
This phase starts immediately after the initial attraction b/w two people, attraction can be physical (for most of the guys) or Intellectual . In this phase you have this curiosity to find out everything about the other person, their likes, interests, food habits, dressing sense, music sense....If the other person smokes or boozes (girls especially)...basically you show that you care about the other person in this phase...

Here are some of the famous dialogues

"Hey where did you go, I was worried about you"
"I was looking forward to talk to you the whole day"
"You sound low today, is every thing alright"
"I really like you"
"What do you do for fun?"
"What type of music do you like?"
"It was fun hanging out with you, we should do it some other time" "So what do you like about me?"

Phase 2:
This is the most lovely phase...both people are happy that they are in a relationship and they have someone who likes them more than anybody....It's the "love is blind , deaf, dumb and fuck the world I'm in love, I don't give fuck about anyone.... I got my girl/guy" Phase....You start ignoring your friends...you dont look at your health, you start missing working out gym so that you can spend time with your love... You simply like what ever the other person does...their smile, the way they sleep, eat, dress up vagera vagera...

Here is some shit we all say....

"I luv u more than anything in life"
" I'm having headache. let me do choomantar(some voodoo shit) " girl or guy kisses on forehead
"I'm really worried about you"
"Do you want to eat something, I will cook something for you"
"You are the only person that I'm close too in this world" "I know you will take care of me for ever"
"I will not marry anyone, other than you"
"Why didn't we meet earlier"
"God I love you more than anything in this world"
"You are the most beautiful thing in the whole world" "Lets get married right now"

Phase3:
This is the most irritating phase for any two people who are in relationship...Once you got to know each other...you try to get back to your normal life (pre-gf/bf times), catchup with old friends, working out, hanging out with buddies, booze up...and the other person feel that you are not spending time with them (which is true) but that's how it is...you take other person for granted and they think they are always there with you...that's where things start to go wrong...

Here are few samplers...
"I think you have changed a lot"
"Why don't you spend time with me"
"You get mad at me these days and you don't like what ever I do"
"You are so cheap"
"I can't imagine that you talk like this"
"You misunderstood me, I didn't mean that"
"You dont to me, like you use to before"
"I'm don't like the way you talk"

Phase4:
After you get/give all sorts of crap in the last phase, you as a individual defend the allegations...this is the blame-game phase...you say things that you don't mean...but you want to say...but you have to so that your ego doesn't get hurt...It's a cheap phase...this phase leads to the ultimate downfall in a relationship....Break-up

"Why are you behaving like this? "
"I'm doing so much and you think that I don't love you"
"I don't think I can marry you"
"OK, you tell me what you want me to do"
"Wat else u expect me to do"
"I wish i can make you happy"
"I have doubts about our relationship"
"You are not happy with me anymore"
"I feel sad that we are going through this situation"
"I wish things were better"

Phase5:
In this phase You are being hit by a thunderbolt, If you are not strong enough my friend...you will be fucking yourself...you start being desperate to get other person...you start compromising on all the things that you were never comfortable doing with...you beg to get the other person back...

"I don't think I can marry you"
"I know its not your fault, its just me"
"I don't know why am i doing this 2 u"
"I'm sure you will find a better girl than me"
"I think this is the best decision for both of us"
"all I want is to c u happy"
"what if this thing happened after marriage, its good that it happened now"
"You are the only person that i loved"
"I don't think i can love anyone else"
"Please don't talk lovey-dovey things with me, It will very be tough for me to get out of the situation"
"You think I'm having good time...it's tough for me too to get out of this situation"
"I don't have anyone with me, not even you"
"You are a good guy, I'm the bad girl"

Phase6:
You blog about your past relationship :-)
You bitch about your Ex

Once a muthafucker always a muthafucker!!!!!!!!!

Yes...that's true...events in past few months had me realize this thought...every one is a mutherfucker and never trust any muthafucker...and there are lots of them out there...its a mean and shitty world out there and the journey that you take everyday will make you strong, grow as a person everyday....you know how smooth they talk but how hard its to "walk the talk"....but on the flip side as days pass by you might miss out on a genuinely good people...people who care about you, people who are willing to help you...and its really sad....

But Instead of getting hurt often by people and to go thru the pain its always safer not to trust people when u just started talking to them....

So beware my friend watch out for smooth talkers....gosh I cant believe hows these idiots talk....fuck these muthafuckers...

Till next time...

Adios amigos...